One day you will be forced to make the decision of a lifetime.

It is inevitable for each of us.

This will be your life’s Crossroads.

This choice will not be difficult. It will be impossible.

This choice will not be difficult. It will be impossible.

This will not be a fork in the road, because these choices will not at any point run anywhere close together. In fact they will go in completely opposite directions of each other. Immediately.

It will undeniably be a Crossroads.

One path will be one of comfort, familiarity and guaranteed predictability.

There is little to no risk in this path, but in exchange its journey (and ultimately your destination), will provide little to no difference in the meaning or purpose of your life, or anyone else’s for that matter.

For some this is often affectionately known as the “path of least resistance”. For them this choice is a no-brainer. Literally.

The other choice, not so much.

The other road will be filled with immeasurable pain, uncertainty, chaos, and most definitely far from predictable.

This choice will not be fun. It will be lonely.

It will suck, in its best case scenario.

What is worse is this choice (if wrong) could also end up in nothing short of a state of complete and utter catastrophe.

Only a minuscule few are willing to even give this choice a second consideration. But for that minuscule few, they almost always know from the very beginning that there is no other way. “The road less traveled” is the one that must be taken.

It is coded in their intuition.

This choice will be truly terrifying, and one that you will work endlessly to delay and expend every effort to avoid all together.

But ultimately the choice must be made.

But ultimately the choice must be made.

At some point in all of our lives (whether early or late), we all will be faced with a decision like this.

One whose choices seem impossible.

But know this:

If you have done your proper and exhaustive due diligence; weighed every possible scenario for the fallacy of your own bias; truly assessed your competition; honestly calculated your risk; properly vetted your feasibility of success, are willing to commit unflinchingly to endure to the end and ultimately all indicators still point towards the path of possible catastrophe…

They are now, quite honestly f*ckin’ the weekend up for everybody.

Although “f*ckboyism” is approaching unheard of levels, snitchin’ on how we (guys) think, isn’t (and never will be) the answer to solving this unfortunate blight on love. There has to be another way.

I (for one), have made rescuing these outliers (who now pose a global threat to love, the club and most importantly “DAY_000” & Chill), one of my top priorities moving forward. Hopefully articles like these will be a first step in changing the vicious cycle of “f*ckboyism”. One character, comma and semicolon at a time.

Take it.

And do not look back.

Absolutely nothing great or of any meaning or importance comes without calculated risk.

In my opinion it is truly the first law of success.

One day, when you survive the gauntlet of hell that awaits you, as a result of this decision, (if you are right) you will look back and know without hesitation or doubt that it was all 100% worth it.

And you and the world will be better, because of it.

Unfortunately, there is nothing further that I can write that will tell you how you will know that it was the right decision, or that it was “worth it” for that matter.

Only you will know.

But trust me, when that day comes it will be undeniable.

You will know it, and you will know it immediately.

This I promise you.

For me, today is that day. This is that moment…

I was right.

 

 

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